So here we are December 23rd, presents are wrapped and under the tree, house is vacuumed but not so clean yet...but I feel way better than I did two days ago...from here on in if it isn't done it probably won't be...and that's okay...we are off to have a evening bonfire and weiner roast with some friends maybe sing a few songs...we'll see how many once they hear my singing (hee hee). Tomorrow morning we'll go to church and house hop for some visiting...this will be a little different for x mas eve as usually we do it at our house or mom and dad's but I'm feeling good with the change!

The girls had their x-mas play on Thur nt at the Community Theatre...other than a few sound tech problems it was wonderful! The girls both did amazing...their confidence on stage has totally gone up a notch this year!

We'll just in case I get busy over the next few days with my family..which is what my idea of x-mas is after all...Merry Christmas to everyone!

I have a huge list of things I should be doing to get ready for Christmas...but I'm procrastinating! It has been a challenging couple of days for all four of us! I think it is partially the winter blues, partially the Christmas pressure I put on myself and just a whole bunch of small things that have been piling up!

I had applied for two jobs...one has decided not to hire until February the other chose someone else that I know and love - she is a great pick...not sure that that makes it any easier...the reality is that God has a different plan for me - I just wish I knew what it was!

Darren is almost done his third year of school ...only a few more days left! But I can see in his eyes how tired he is.

We are also struggling with the expectations of Christmas vs. the reality of what we can actually accomplish. Not just the gift giving part of it...the baking, card writting, house cleaning, company hosting....It's not a wonder getting to work is feeling so hard when I feel like I have so many unfinished things at home.

So a bah humbug for tonight to myself and hopefully I will figure out how to create "opportunity" from my "crisis" by tommorrow!

Okay time for some updating....first - today is my Birthday! Yes, 21 again! Isn't it wonderful to look so old yet really be so young?!

We picked up a tree last Friday nt...to our dismay...the needles started falling off once the lights were on but before the decorations went on...so tonight we went down and thought we would try it again...different kind of tree this time!

Darren is 1/2 way thru his third year of carpentry (the school part)...his marks so far are all in the 90's he's been studying very hard! I am so proud of him!!!

Kids also got their report cards and are both doing very well - again very proud of them too!!!

On a harder note...we just past the one year mark from when we lost Darren's dad....some days seem easier than others...the whole thing still seems very surreal! Doesn't feel right...doesn't feel fair!!! Still miss him more than I ever could have imagined!

It has now been three months since I started working of Rise and Run Mfg. It has been a challenging experience in many ways...trying to figure out if this is just growth or if it is time to move onto the next challenge...we'll see what God's plans are - hopefully that will be clear sooner than latter!

It is Christmas party season...and the celebrations have already begun! This weekend we have 4 different christmas things...Fri nt party, Sat nt party, Sun day xmas play practice, Sun nt Home for the holidays tour with Darren's mom...all of which I'm looking forward to...just not sure when I'm going to fit in the 4 hours of work I need to do between Friday and Sunday nt...

Hope all is well for you Blog readers...here's some notes to a few of you that I'm thinking of...Nat - hope you and Just are recovering! Send you both a big hug! Kathy - thanks for your extra help (with both jobs) so nice to see you! Jen P. Thanks for the visit a few weeks ago - I love shopping with you! Denise and the Family - think of you more than you know - you all continue to be in my prayers! Lori - you live so close yet I see you so little! so glad I have your Blog to check in with. Bob and Kathy - you inspire me! thanks for the call tonight! Jen and Trevor - hope all is well in that rainy wet part of the world...we think of you both often!

Oh ya one last thing...here are a few of my cool birthday gifts...a new sweater (it's very cool!), a plastersine rainbow and a CD series "Inspired by the Bible Experience" it is awesome!

May God continue to show us all the blessings in our lives everyday - even in the little things! Night!

Part 2 of the Disney Adventures

I think that if you were to ask Darren and the girls they would all say that as great as Disneyland itself was California Adventure was where we had the most fun as a family. The crowds were smaller and the pace a little slower. At Disneyland we saw castles, went on rides, met the Fairy God Mother herself, met Mickey and Minnie, and shopped but it was very busy and crowded.

Two of our favorite rides at California were Soaring over California and The Grizzly River Run. Once again I got soaked on the river ride and I had to go on the Ferris Wheel (I'm not the best in high places) with Makenna to get her to come on with us on the River Run. Soaring over California is like a mix of Imax and handgliding. It feels like you are going to dip your feet in the river and touch the leaves on the orange trees...all while your in a seat 45 feet in the air facing the screen. I swear I could smell the ocean and oranges as we flew over the different areas.

Another silly highlight was the Tortilla factory. They show you how they make the tortillas and then you get to taste a warm one right out of the oven...yum!

It was also in California Adventure that we went to Arial's Grotto for lunch and met 5 or so princesses. The food was average for the kids...probably the most well rounded meal I had all week...but the mac'n cheese tasted like flour. Service was great - kids loved it - expensive but worth it.

In Calif. Adv. there was an area set up like the Boardwalk's of California which included amusemant games. Darren won 4 stuffies for the girls and I got Tinkerbell painted on my cheek.

Oh yeah...and The Aladdin show is a live theatre show. There are two balconies, Aladdin and Jasmine fly thru the air on a magic carpet....the show was amazing!!!!!! Definatly a must see!

One of Mickala's favorite parts was Animation School. That's where actual Disney animators taught us to draw Goofy, Mickey and _____________.

So that's part 2 I think I have enough for a part 3...I'll be blogging again.

We'll we are back! Had a wonderful time in California...a little weird coming home to leaves and cool weather but it's all good.

Here's the trip scoop...Flew into LA on Friday. Spent over an hour at Hertz...finally decided to not go for the Hummer that I thought would be fun but instead went with the practical Uplander (don't buy one...we didn't like it) - it had a DVD for the kids. Off to San Diego right in the middle of LA's rush hour...got to San Diego around 8pm - not bad considering it was suppose to be a 2 1/2 hour drive and we flew into LA at 1:30pm. Freeway driving was a little more stressful than I bargained for but it did get easier by the end of the week.

Saturday morning got up at a good time. After some driving around we found Sea World...or maybe I should say we found the exit to Sea World (We could see Sea World all of the six times we drove by it - we just had a little trouble finding the exit). Had a BLAST! Makenna got us on the Atantis ride (click on the link to see the ride) http://4adventure.com/SWC/attractions_home.aspx
and we sat in the "soak zone" for all the shows...I was the wettest of all - I would ring out my sweater and it gushed with water. The Believe show was also a huge highlight with Shamu truly winning our hearts! We got there at 8 am and we left at close (8pm). It was a great day!!!!

Sunday we went to Tijuanna. The idea was to show the girls a small piece of what Darren and I have done when we have gone to build houses and hopefully give them a little bit of a view of what goes on in the world outside of themselves and Canada. The smog was the thick (from the garbage they burn), we were approached by a little girl about 2 selling bracelets and then swarmed by kids up to 8. We picked up a very colorful hammock and then headed back for the boarder crossing...the line up was over 2 1/2 km outside of the US Crossing building. It took us over an hour to just get in the building! Then we hit a couple factory outlets for the kids back to school clothes and then headed back to Anaheim.

Monday went to Disneyland!!! After all the hype of how cool it was I was worried that I would be let down...but no such thing happened! It was truly magical. Another family from Victoria was in line behind us...and gave us another 3 days worth of tickets for Disneyland as they had miss puchased their tickets...they wouldn't take any $ for them..this is just one example of people's generosity while we were away...God so blessed us over and over again.

After the Atlantis ride in San Diego Makenna was not willing to jump on any big rollercoaster type rides...it scared her pretty good! Mickala on the other hand was pumped and ready to drag anyone she could convice to go on any wild ride she could find. I think Indiana Jones was her favorite...Space Mountain was my favorite at Disneyland but I'll tell you latter what my overall favorite was.

We'll I'll leave you hanging there with part 1 and will give you more latter...I'll also try and add some pics.

After someone called to see if we were okay - "It had been a while since you had blogged" - I thought I should do a little post to update everyone.

It has been a little overwhelming over the last few weeks...we finished off the summer with a wonderful camping trip to Fintry. Met some new friends and spent some time with old friends as well as family. It was a wonderful way to end the summer. Only problem is I really didn't want the summer break to end (other than my deserate feeling to replenish my bank account) it was wonderful to be home with the girls...I'm even questioning if $ was not such an issue if I would be staying home with them and giving home school a shot. Any way no need to live in the what if's this is where God seems to want me right now..so here I am...trying to figure out what exactly I am suppose to be learning along this journey called life.

Kids are back to school...I'm back to work and the days seem to be flying by. We are preparing for Disneyland and Darren's going back to school in October...Well we are off to a pick nick trying to enjoy every last moment of the good weather before it gets to cold and dreary...

Bye for now.

Makenna's birthday. Probably the best kids party we have had yet. "Fish" was the theme. So I made the fish cake (check out the pic! pretty good huh?!). We made fish necklaces, tackle boxes, fished for money, swam, jumped on the tramp, ate cake and opened presents. The kids had fun but were not flying around all high on sugar. Everyone did what they wanted and I was okay with that. There were a few friends missing but we made it so we would see them at differnet times.

Over a week...better get to updating....

Annaliis's family is back from Europe and our family is getting back to some normalcy. I'm loving being home with the girls again! I was finding the running around between her house and ours very time consuming. Also trying to be with her downstairs and the girls upstairs was impossible.

Darren worked this morning to make up some hours he'll be missing Monday for a funeral. Sue, Vaughn's (Darren's little Brother thru Big Bro's) mom passed away after a battle with Cancer. Vaughn is now 20 but I get that this will wear on him in it's own unique way that lossing someone we love does in all of us.

Makenna and Mickala both had friends over. Shanti is staying for a sleepover. So we ventured into our first time of "streaking" the hair for the two of them. I panicked a little and Mickala's barely show so far.... Makenna has been starting all of her craft kits she got for her birthday...painting away.

I would tell you Tiggy is starting to mellow but that would just bring on a bought of "hyper cat". We tried not putting her in the basement so we could sleep but she kept insisting that lights being turned off actually means play time. That must be cat language. As you can tell I'm still in training.

Nt for now.

Is it Friday already? Where did the week go...oh ya...shopping with Diane...

Today has been nice and easy going...my friend Kathy's 3 kids, my two and
Annaliis helping where she can...I have made soap with them (using a very easy cheater kit from Michaels - now there would be my not so good place to work as I would spend all if not more than my share of my pay cheque!). Made some french toast and turkey sausage for lunch...peaches - yum! Doing laundry galore...mine plus Annaliis's as she just got back from camp.

Went to see Cat's last nt...it was a rehearsal nt and Annaliis had invited all four of us to go with her...I thought "not a bad way to spend my anniversary" after all we are currently on empty in the $ department after last weeks shopping extravaganza. Did I mention that I really had not thought out the whole picture...the part where Makenna has not been feeling 100% and that the kids attention span - although better than some kids is not that of adults yet...they wormed they kicked, they talked, they asked a million times if it was over yet...so when the first intermission hit...I tried to talk to them about their behaviour but was remprimanded by some nice woman in front of me that tried to tell me that it's okay they are just learning and they will basically grow up to be well adjusted adults who will not be mass murders. So Darren and I took about 30 seconds to discuss the fact that there was at least another 50 minutes left...and we decided that for our children to live to see the light of day it was best that we let them leave (as they were asking). Darren took them to DQ for a treat - I stayed with Annaliis thinking of how nice it would be to feel that oh so soft Gap cotton of his t-shirt (Diane - he really liked it!). Once home and in bed we decided we should try our anniversary date night another time.

So here I sit another late nt...after my Mon and Wed swims I somehow feel more inspired to post...

Diane (my girlfriend who I have known since I was 3) has been here since Friday for the big "20 year George Pringle Secondary Grad reunion"....we have been shopping, visiting, dancing, eating, shopping, more shopping, more eating and more shopping...(get the picture?)...well today we went down memory lane and visited our old stomping grounds where we hung out when we were teenagers...thought it would be fun for our kids to see what the moms did when they were growing up...so off to "Mariners Reef Waterslide" we went...you know your old when you tell the kids you used to be able to buy a season's pass for $25. bucks - now a day admission is $18....the girls refused to go down the "River Ride" which was the best part when we were teens...But that's okay because instead of getting "tube burn" I hurt my foot! (can you hear the whining in my voice?) - going down one of the kiddy slides!

The grad reunion was nice...a little bit more challenging as I was fighting a chest infection and decided I should try it sober...but nice to see everyone...some have changed others have not...everyone tells me I look exactly the same...not sure if that's a compliment or an insult but I'll take it as I still look very young (hee hee). It was an opportunity to tie up a loose end with a friend I felt I had let down years before...and to touch base with others I have often thought about.

Nite.

Another late night rant...survived another day!!!

What does it say about your life when you go see the doctor and she's all full of sarcasm? (In the nicest of ways!) I told her I had quit my job with LES...she wanted to know what I was going to be doing...so I explained ...working for a stair manufacturer...front office type stuff...shipping, receiving, quoting customers...etc...she responds with ..."WOW that will be great!!! But do you think you can handle a job with no to little stress where you arn't saving the world?" Guess that is her way of saying she feels I made a good choice...after all no one's life depends on if the stair quote gets done at that very moment!! Oh - I'm so looking forward to the new job...even if it is low key!

It's 10:07pm Wed nt...Just got home from Aquafit...it has been a long week and it's only hump day! I hope I sleep well today!

On a more positive note...I had an awesome day (stong on the "day" word) with Mickala...Makenna spent the day with her friend and Mickala had the choice of hanging with a friend or hanging with me and she decided to hang with me...it was nice just being with her - not mediating between her and Makenna...not riding her to do this and that just being...definatly my high for the day! I so crave more one on one time with the girls...I love just hearing about their ideas, I want to know what makes their hearts sing.

Yesterday Mickala asked me about the people protesting in front of the hospital - it was a great door opener for us to talk about abortion..and hopefully she'll keep asking others for their input..that was her challenge of the week.

Dreading my 20 year reunion this weekend but so looking forward to seeing a few choice friends...

Just booked a camping spot for Sept long weekend!! Yeah!!!

Well I'm off to bed more insights and thoughts latter...nt

This is for you Jennie...she doesn't look all to happy but that is because the flash woke her up. "Sling kitty" - loves cuddling at the computer.

Finding it hard to write here when I'm not feeling 100%...don't want to come across as negative...so here's my note to say I'm not 100% and it's okay!!

Tiggy! Tiggy! Tiggy!

Feeling like the cat has taken over the family as the newest addition..still not sleeping...but working on it...Darren is trying to frantically finish the scratching post...

Life here was suppose to be a little slower...but no luck...we are doing respite with a young lady for the month, Wednesday's I have an extra 3 kids in the morning for a total of 7 under 9 yrs...good they I like all the kids! kids haircuts, grocery shopping, getting ready for camping, swimming and oh ya...I think I have a new job to start in September...I'll fill everyone in more latter.

We'll I have an early morning so I'm off to bed.
nt

Adventures with the Swabey's
Okay here is my exciting revelation/ lesson for the day...I think I learned how to link...here's my try...this is a friends link...they have just sold their home here in Canada left behind family and moved to Ireland...all for the Lord. A little crazy but that is why we love them so much! Check it out!
Rain Happens

Now if only I could figure out a few other Blogging tricks!

Oh ya - I almost forgot...went to a Passion Party last nt...the lady who did it was awesome...very proffessional yet made it very fun! Darren was so cute when I got home...he had obviously not really listened when I told him where I was going...his eyes were just a twinkeling when I got home...As he looked thru the catologue he said " I had not idea where you were going... this looks great!!!" So note to women out there when in the mood to spend $ men will never complain when you buy from this company...most women there said husbands had said buy whatever you want!!

All I will say is it was a wonderful nt with my man...even if I only really saw him after 10pm...hee hee (note: no pics will be forth comming!)

Made it thru the nt!!! Not sure where she slept or what she did all nt...all I know is I got some sleep, kids got sleep, hubby got sleep...we are all a little happier today!

I have 4 kids right now (none of which are mine...). 2 yrs, 4 yrs, and two sixes. Boy do I have alot to get ready for daycare!!!!! The two year old is into every cupboard...the 4 yr old is exploring every room and the two sixes think it is all so funny!! Tiggy? hiding under the couch!

The girls should be back soon...so I'm off to make grill cheese sandwhiches and then off swimming at the "Y" this afternoon with 4 of the six...never dull but I am really enjoying it!

Feel like we have our third child...and now I'm pretty sure...NO more kids!! hee hee...I rolled on Tiggy last nt (1 am) - really freaked me out...then I spent 45 minutes trying to convince her to sleep on the chair in the living room with the really soft towel...went back to bed only to be awoken by Mickala...as Tiggy had attacked her legs at 2am...(now been up for one hour) Tiggy is now in full "Hey - everyone is up and it's party time! - lets play" mode...took another hour to convince the cat she was not going to sleep with Mickala either...(read the cat book on ideas to get some sleep ....ended up using the waterbottle to warm the spot I wanted her to sleep in...) -back to bed at 3:45am.. woke up to 7:30 am to Makenna crying as Tiggy was now attacking her in her sleep... Tiggy then chased Makenna into my room where she decided my bed felt like a litter box and pee'd on my nice bedding...clean bedding on the way!!!
So worked on nail trimming this morning...been putting that one off...but did get 3 nails done...only a gazillion more to go...Kitty litter on my feet is now feeling pretty irrelevant!

Thanks Lori and Diane for the Kitty tips...I'm hoping that by the time she's two she'll let me (and the kids too!) sleep thru the nt.

So here is the newest addition to our family "Tiggy". Not sure where Darren will sleep tonight when he gets home from up North?! So far my biggest complaint is the kitty litter under my feet when I go to the loo...other than that - I'm in love! (and I think the girls are too!)

Read this book a long time ago...honestly didn't get a whole bunch out of it..a few key point but no lightening...but a friend e-mailed me the link for the quiz...I took it and found my results interesting...thought I would give it a go..hope this makes sense to those who have not read the book...

The Five Love Languages

My primary love language is probably
Quality Time
with a secondary love language being
Physical Touch

Complete set of results
Quality Time: 10
Physical Touch: 8
Words of Affirmation: 8
Acts of Service: 2
Receiving Gifts: 2
Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages. Sometimes we don't understand our partner's requirements, or even our own. We all have a "love tank" that needs to be filled in order for us to express love to others, but there are different means by which our tank can be filled, and there are different ways that we can express love to others.

Here's the link...http://www.youthnetsouthampton.org.uk/breakout/lovelanguages.php

Found it interesting that I wanted to answer yes to the "gift" questions...but obviously need the other more...hint...I still love gifts!!

Beaches, waterparks, raspberries and cupcakes - that has been my week...not stressful at all! And I'm loving it! I feel like a huge weight has been lifted since I finished work! Never realized how heavy I had made it. I have been at the kids school twice this week and loved all of it!

Other good news...started swimming again...have shifted my brain to think in new ways...eating healthier...in my first week have lost 4 pounds...it's awesome and it's just the start! I'm realizing that once I start moving my body a little - it will get easier to move my body the in the ways it used to move...soccer fields here I come!! - okay a little ways to go yet but I'll take the baby steps.

Love'n life!!

Today is my last day of working the job that I have done off and on for the last 12 years. I am finding this challenging and emotional.

It is definatly time for change...I find my passion is not the same - I used to get excited even about the mundane but now the "everyday" is what challenges me the most. I still get all wound up about the extrodinary things...things like people doing things they never imagined. That still sets me on fire...When I talk about my friends who are doing things they never thought possible I still get all reved up!! But my energy none the less is not the same for the other parts of my days. So here I go - stepping off the plank...or at least that is what the mind picture I have today is...I just pray that the Lord will catch me and put me down gently into the ocean as I try and find my swimming arms in this new body of water.

I am freaked out and excited (okay more freaked out than excited!) - but I know that I have an amazing circle of support who will help me swim in the right direction and help me find land.

So where lays my passion? What does God have in store? What will my life look like in 6 months, 1 year, 2 years, 5 days?

I hearby release all preconcieved notions (and will continue to do so on a daily basis), live in the moment and TRUST the Lord to guide my life - as one thing I know for sure is that I have NO control over where he needs and wants me to be!

Another Monday. Only 4 more days of work left before I step off the edge into some new unkown adventures. For those who don't know two weeks ago I gave my notice with LES (after 12 years). I'm filled with mixed emotions...sad as I won't see the great group of friends (who have become like family) over the last 12 years on a daily basis...but excited about the possibilities that the future may hold. (Scared fits in there somewhere as well!)

I asked the girls what they thought I should do if I was to change jobs and neither skipped a beat...they both thought I would do well at daycare...so right now I am investigating licensing to provide daycare in our home. I'm excited but also nervous about the idea and will know more in the next 2-4 weeks.

For those of you who know me...if you have any ideas...please pass them on - I always appreciate some outside perspective.

Emotionally life is feeling like a roller coaster but I am trying to find specifically what it is that is making life feel so crazy and out of control and either slow it down or eliminate the turns alotogether.

On a completly different note...camping season is here!!! I figure the rain can't last forever -so we'll have great weather for camping! so planning we are doing.

So this post is a little disjointed but hopefully informative.

Bye for now.
Sonia

Life in a nut shell...realizations of the month...it is much easier to help people who want you help vs. people who say they want your help but really don't want it...from a relationship building experience it is much easier to build relationships with people who want relationships than people who say they do but don't ever make any effort into it...this may all sound basic and simple but some days things seem much clearer than others.

Another realization for me is what is important for me at a funeral. Having just gone to one today - which was not necessarily what I want at mine..but very nice none the less.
Here's my list...
1) God! He has to be the focus...without him in my life I am so messed up!
2) Open viewing...at first I was freaked out by this...now how amazing of an experience has this been towards reality and closure in my own life!
3) Contemporary music...none of this hymns that no one has ever heard of ...I know Darren will pick meaningful songs....your the man!
4) Go from the funeral to reception...let's celebrate! If this is happening...it's okay to be sad but hey I'm happy - I know without a doubt that I will be celebrating where I'm at! This world is way to hard of a place to be ...enjoy what there is to enjoy!
5) Use up what left of me and burn the rest...I do not want to be in a box in the cold dark earth!

I know this is probably the wierdest blog you have read lately if not the wierdest ever...but those are my realiztions of the week. I have more...the last one I'll share is if I don't go to bed soon I'm pretty much guaranteed to be really grumpy tommorrow! Nite.

A couple weeks a go Darren had the opportunity to preach at church...here's the link to his sermon....his message really impacted me so I thought I would post it so other people can be blessed as well. fbckelowna.podomatic.com


Sonia

Okay I'm going to try something new here...this is part of the sharing more of me thing...Something that God has totally put on my heart for the past two years is a project in Haiti called "Clean Water for Haiti". Ever since I heard of them and what they do I can't stop thinking about them! Clean, healthy water is something I so take for granted. I can not imagine not having it. To me it is a basic necessity. The filters they produce are bio-sand filters that Canadians at the University of Calgary (I think)...develped. It is a simple process that works...doesn't have to be rocket science, hight tech or expensive...it just works! But it still takes $ and rescources to produce and distribute. I feel like I'm not explaining it very well...so here's the link - check it out for yourselves and see what cool things they are doing! http://www.cleanwaterforhaiti.org/news.html

What is not posted yet is that they have been trying to purchase the land that the mission is on as the owner is trying to sell. They have about 90,000 of the 140,000$ they need to complete the purchase and the land owner has decided he wants a cash deal to be completed by the end of May...so if you pray on this and God lands this one in your soul...please listen to your inner voice and make a difference in people's lives! Either give me a call, drop me a line or contact them directly. If you have more questions same thing...but don't put it off!

I hope you all get that me even posting this is huge for me! I don't like selling or asking for $...but this is something I believe can make a huge difference in people's lives...something as basic as clean water! Just try going one whole day where every time you turn on your tap think of people in Haiti for who clean water is a luxury not a basic necessity! I can't imagine it! And don't think they should not have something so basic.

So what's new at the Withers? We'll Mickala stayed with Grandma M. as she was sick today. Makenna cut her toe (not sure how). Nicole is here for the weekend (and will only be with us one more weekend after this). Chrissy and Ashley move in Easter weekend. Sonia's work is going well (always challenging). Darren's work is very busy...anyone know of good carpenters who need work? Come to think of it anyone know any good Human Service Workers? We are always short staffed as well!

God has been good! (Even thru the hard stuff!) I have been involved with a personal/ Leadership Develpment group called Inside Out Leadership since last June...it has been an awesome journey. I have gained lots of insight into myself and am choosing to do things different. (I don't always get it right - but am choosing to do things different!)

One of the things that I have been doing differently is to let people into my life more...okay mom I can hear you now... :)... so I'm hoping that you all love me enough to listen to me rant and rave about my revelations in life...so the posts might look different...I'll still try and keep everyone up on the family stuff but hopefully you'll learn a little more about me...(Consider yourselves warned!)

Stay tuned for the new posts.

I'll take a look thru the pics and see if I can add a few new one's.

Bye for now,
Sonia

So the kids are back to school - YEAH! - oh was that my outside voice? It was only one week so I'm really not complaining...I just ran out of money...We had Diane, Richard and Shannon here for the weekend (they arrived Wed we left Thurs...we really do like them!) We went to Vancouver to see Jen (Mickala's birth mom) and were suppose to stay with our friends Jennie, Bob, Mason and newbie Avery...but their house got flooded...we ended up staying at a hotel...I made it thru Science World and the girls shopping at Metrotown...then melted down with a migraine...that part was the least favorite part of the trip! The best part were seeing Jen and Trevor and Jennie, Bob and kids...we came home early...and got to spend a really nice day with great friends before they left to go back on Monday up North.

First day back to work after two weeks of being off work...today was a comedy of errors..I'm trying very hard to see the positive in the day..."I have a great hubby, great kids and I only got a $138 fine for my first speeding ticket!" all in all I survived.

bye for now

Okay so it's been a while! I havn't been feeling well and am now feeling like I'm getting better!!!!
Things seem to be settling....I think the time off at work and time with the girls and Darren have helped!

I thought I would post some pics of the day we went to the big city accross the lake. It was such a gorgeous day! When we finally managed to leave the house we had a really relaxing day. We drove down towards the old ferry docks had lunch on the water (Subway- not very exciting). We walked along the beach & fed the birds (I'm trying hard to surrender my "gotta be a mom" and be more a kid and not worry so much about what we should be doing or not be doing). Then we drove thru the old ise Trailer park where I grew up (until grade 5). It's hard to see how it has changed. I'll never forget how cool it was to hang out at the beach, go boating and how I looked forward to summer when all the camping kids would come to play with.

All in all it ended as a pretty good day.

We'll it's raining today...looking forward to some more spring weather!

On Valentines day Makenna's class did a special song for the families...I was not able to be there but Darren did make it. Thought I would add a picture.

So we went away for the weekend all the way up to Idabel Lake...Mom, Dad, Steph, Kim, Darren the girls and myself. Had a wonderful time bonding and riding around on the snowmobiles...even ate healthy and managed to stay on track with the new "want to feel healthy and not like crap" kick - so I better make healthy choices.

We have been looking for a small dog to bring into our family...anyone hear of a younger (not necessarily puppy) let us know.

Darren is all done school!!!! Yeah!!! Another 9 months or so before the next bout of torcher!

Some other possible cool things are brewing - I'll keep you all up to date if they develop positively.

Bye for now. Sonia

We'll back to work for me and a day of R & R for Darren and the girls...NOT! Darren put new brakes and rotars on the van!!! It doesnt' squeek anymore! What I really wanted to do was post a picture of Makenna missing her two front teeth...very cute! She was chewing on an orange tonight and I was giving her a hard time about not getting it off the rind very good when I realized she has no top teeth to do it with...no wonder she was having a hard time.

Adventures with the Withers

Here I sit on Sunday morning...Darren and the girls are off to church and I'm hanging out with Nicole. Nicole is 19 and comes to hang with us two weeks out of every month. Her laughter is contagious and she is mostly easy going.

I'm thinking of all the things I should be doing ...."should" - need to get rid of that word in my vocabulary!

This weekend I have spent a good amount of time preparing meals and finding new ways to incorporate whole grain foods into our diet ...often in disguise so the girls don't know it's good for them...So far the girls havn't caught on in any exciting way ...but I am holding fast..we all need to eat healthier! To me it all tastes pretty darn good...just time consuming to learn to cook in a new way. Any yummy, healthy favorites out there please forward them on!


This afternoon I'm hoping to go shopping with Mickala for a bit...she got a couple gift certificates for her birthday...and is in a hurry to spend them. Tonight we have invited a friend over for dinner... Roast Chicken etc....should be good!

Well back to my world...

Okay here goes the first post...boy do I feel green...I am so not the computer guru...We'll the kids are off to school and I had a few minutes to myself...just finished my bowl of Red River with pears and apple...I really should go get ready for my day but find it more relaxing to sit here and check out the world...

My goal for the week is to eat whole foods...as much as I need - but whole foods...I'm tired of feeling like crap! I feel like I'm being detoxed as my body is definitely not happy with me about this! Next week will add to that but for this week I'm finding it exhausting just to plan to eat well. (But boy did I sleep good yesterday!)

My day today looks like doing laundry, packing my 1/2 ready lunch, shower, make-up, few e-mails and off to pick up a kid to take her to the doctors. Then back to school with her and off to work for me. I'm not sure how Darren does it with me working in the evenings...getting dinner on the go, kids homework, lunches and keeping them on track - plus his own homework which I know is heavy to say the least! He is amazing!

Work...oh ya that J. O. B. thing. What can I say - best thing I did was cut back from managing to just "working"! I do miss parts of managing but the staff shortage thing - I'm all to happy not to have to worry about! What parts of managing do I miss? The co-ordinating of things...keeping everything flowing...it has been hard at times to take a back seat and let someone else step up...but only because I would do things differently...not that things are not happening good/ well - just different than I might do them. I also miss the team building part! I really love finding what motivates people and getting them to tap into that - it is so cool to watch their energy and excitement for their jobs grow.

Well that's the first post...let's see how it looks on the site...I guess I just talked about me...well next time it will be more about the family.

Bye for now,

Sonia

Mickala, Mom and Makenna - 150 Mile House - August 2005